Are You Struggling to Create The Life
You Truly Desire?
Can you say you are genuinely happy and living a truly authentic life you love?
Being authentic is a gift to yourself - it is coming from a real place within - where your words and actions are congruent with your values and beliefs. Part of finding your authenticity is sorting through your beliefs to identify which are truly YOUR own.
Living your best life may seem difficult, but it is certainly within your grasp. It’s all about learning to be truly authentic and embracing happiness.
Do you get sick of that annoying inner critic constantly wearing you down ? You know, that negative self-talk that keeps you feeling trapped and inadequate and full of self-doubt and fear
Do you spend so much time and energy trying to be who you thinks others want you to be?
Do you long to be just you – the real you! Not the you who is constantly people-pleasing in an effort to be liked and valued?
How would it feel to be able to make confident decisions without over-thinking and over-analysing everything?
Are you ready to ditch the perfectionist thinking that disempowers you, stops you taking action and keeps you stuck?
Are you ready to see and accept yourself for the wonderful, amazing, unique woman you really are – and really believe that you are truly worth the life you dream of?
Hey – I’m Ally – and I was my own worst enemy for longer than I care to remember. My inner critic controlled and paralysed me for way too long. It robbed me of my self-worth and self-belief until eventually I lost sight of who I really was. My constant habit of comparing myself to those around me, always trying to please others and try to live up to what I believed was their expectation of me left me feeling inferior, inadequate and unworthy.
Then tragedy and heartbreak struck! For the first time in my life I was totally alone, grief stricken and broken. I had plunged to rock bottom…and the only way left was up. I was forced to take a long hard look at who I really was? For the first time in my life I had to look in the mirror and ask myself who I really was – and confront some difficult questions and face some unpleasant truths.
Lots of inner work and learning how to love and appreciate myself for who I really was – and eventually I discovered the true authentic ME. Then I had to release the fear of allowing myself to be the real me!
And the great news is, it’s absolutely possible for you too. You don’t have to listen to your inner critic on repeat anymore, you don’t have try and please everyone else, you don’t have to hide away in fear of rejection and you don’t have to put pressure on yourself to have it altogether, all the time. You don’t have to live up to other people’s expectations and you dont have to make decisions the way you think other people would want you to ( and yes….I even used to do that!
You have a choice now whether or not to allow that harsh inner critic to control you.
You have a choice whether or not to engage in self-destructive people-pleasing behaviour.
You can learn to let go of procrastination and the pressure to be perfect all the time and never make mistakes.
And best of all….you can fall in love with you amazing unique wonderful self that no longer fears rejection or suffers continual self-doubt, or tries to live up to other people’s expectations.
There is a better way….
Together we can overcome the inner beliefs that are holding you back, we can raise your self-worth and confidence.
Imagine how good it will feel to just be you! No living up to other people’s expectation, just being free to be your authentic self.
Finally love and accept yourself for who you really are, discover your passions and step into your dreams.Become a confident decision maker and live a true and meaningful life.
Discover the beauty of your awesome uniqueness – dare to be your own person and disregard what others may think!
Everything will change in your life when you finally learn that you deserve SO MUCH BETTER
Are You Ready To Discover and Embrace Your Beautiful Authentic Self?
Schedule a brief chat with me so we can decide if coaching is right for you. After all, you need to get to know me before committing to any sessions so that you have clarity and assurance that this is a good fit for you. This is a FREE call and it will be a transformational experience for you – whether or not you choose to continue working with me. I really look forward to meeting you and getting to know you:)
I was new to life coaching when I found Ally. To be honest, I was looking for her to give me advice and instructions of how to gain more happiness and feel better about myself. But instead, she came along side me and listened, reflected my thoughts and helped me find my own answers that were buried deep inside me. This has helped me grow as an individual and I am so much more content and happy.
Since then I have joined several community groups to meet new people, taken up photography and even joined the gym and lost weight! I feel like my life has been transformed!
I have been a much happier person since my life coaching. I used to be really hard on myself - self critical and with really high expectations for myself. I was also a crazy perfectionist - thinking I could never make a mistake or fail at anything. But now I can smile at myself and think of the lesson I have just learnt - I no longer beat myself up over it.
I have learnt how to set realistic and achievable goals and that has helped me overcome my procrastination.
But best of all - for the first time in my life I am learning to be comfortable being me - and I'm even okay with the fact that not everyone needs to like me - that is so liberating.
Be YOU and live your best life!
Take the first step to happiness now and give yourself permission to shine
Here is my promise to you:
I will be there for YOU, all the way – we will do this together. I will see qualities and strengths in you that you may be unaware of, and I’ll call them out. I will be your greatest cheerleader and encourager. I will hold a mirror up to you to reflect your inner beauty and brilliance….and if you need a gentle nudge occasionally, I will do that. This will be a time for YOU to be heard without judgement or condemnation, but rather with total respect and acceptance. It will be an honour and privilege to see your life transform as you step into your true being and purpose.